Relationship is about people connecting, it isn't one thing above another, it isn't about what you want or what the other person wants, in other words it isn't about getting your ego needs met, although it can be that for some people.
Being in relationship is about learning and observing and growing within that connection with 'other'. It is about letting the bondaries go between our self and the other, it can be emotion, it can be intellect ,it can be soul and it can be spirit, or it can be any and all of these things at the same time. But much more than this, no one has any right to put thier parameters and judgements on what they feel another persons' relationship should be like.
Relationships have no boundaries other than the ones we put on them ourselves. Relationships are the cohesion that keeps people connected throughout time, history, culture, race, diversity and humanity. A relationship is defined by the parameters that the people involved in it choose to put upon it and ultimatley nothing else matters. Forget others' judgements as it is ultimaltely your own decision and your own destiny. Only you know from your own place of integrity what a relationship means to you, and when you find it, it will be the right one for you at this time in your life.
Everything you could possibly imagine in the space of a heartbeat, if you choose to let go of all your fears and preconceived ideas about what a relationship should be.
