Lost & Found

Q&A re Lost & Found

Obviously, I'm lost. Do I want to be found? Not quite sure. Give it a try as it won't hurt, so I've heard. Nosey people keep telling you to follow your head, your heart, your steps, or even your crystal ball.......why not just follow me? I don't bite, nor steal, nor kill; believe it or not, at your own risk. Times up, make up your mind, or find the nearest exit to further explore. You're keeping my 2038 potential dates right behind you. Move on, the faster the better.....


List one or two of your accomplishments you take the most pride in.

As mentioned, don't bite and don't kill. If that's not good enough, I go hunting with my rifle in SA. And I do shooting with my .22 pistol with the highest score of 280. Do I need to say more? Oh please don't run are you listening!!!! You are in good hands my dear!


What is the smartest decision you ever made?

I deliberately get lost to be found.


What person has made the biggest impact/influence on your life?

Bin Laden. Well don't get me wrong, I swear I have absolutely nothing to do with this holy man; none, zero, nothing at all. But what's your question again? IMPACT, there you go. I believe I have this so-called post-dramatic syndrome; that I could never dial 911 on my phone if I ever encounter any emergency. How tragic, no laughing matter.


Some people joke they'd "rather be sailing." What activity are you most passionate about?

Sailing


If you suddenly found yourself with an afternoon free, without any obligations, what would you do with the time?

Without any obligations?????? Are you sure....... I would KILL. Nah, I'd read a good book by judging its cover, or meet a date without judging his behavior, or take a nap simply because I'm a laid back person.


What is your best memory, and why?

My best memory is I have this sickness called a lapse of memory. Why? No news is good news I suppose.


We all have good days and bad days. What inspires you to trudge forward during the bad times?

I'll put my map on the table, mapping 1/3 of those countries below the poverty line. Another 1/3 are constantly under fire. And the rest are either backing up the fire, or ignoring the line.

Hackers

By reading some recent articles I'm amazed by some posters, for the morality standard they're holding against hackers. They simply mixed up the idea of being nosy and invasion of privacy. Let's put it this way.

Being nosy: Gossip about which celebrity gets pregnant before getting married, interrogate your friends about his or her secret lovers, ask your neighbors what they think about the single mom with 3 kids living upstairs....etc.

Invasion of privacy: Hacking somebody's e-mail, voice or instant messages, password or that sort. Doesn't matter it's your partner, your children, your cousin, or your maid. It gives you absolutely no right to do so; no matter what. (Am aware some of the parents would install the key logger in the PC; in order to monitor their children's on line activities. That may or may not be justified, but I'd prefer to educate the kids learn to be trusted).

Whoever gets nothing to hide does not necessarily mean they're welcoming spy. Whoever gets cheated does not immediately entitle to be a hacker. I feel terribly sorry for those who believed an eye for an eye, or those who made up incredibly stupid excuses to justify their irritating acts.

Premeditated killing is considered first degree murder, whereas killing impulsively could be manslaughter.

Can you or can you not differentiate a felony and wrong doing? Hackers!!!

Alone but not lonely

I love being alone, but not lonely. This is the path I have chosen, accustomed with solitude all my life, perhaps long before I was born. Never had a problem of eating alone, traveling alone, attending concerts alone...believe that's something to do with genes, but mostly to do with choice.

Yet on the other hand I am very passionate to my friends and family, that many people find it special quality in an Asian. I love hugging my pals all the time, male or female. Every time I see my nephew and niece, they must give me a real big hug otherwise I wouldn't let them go. Once I wrote a letter telling my dad I loved him (for Asian it's almost a nut case). And my brothers are very close to me that they call me Sis.

From time to time I do miss the feeling of being loved, or afraid of losing the ability to love someone. Hence I am not shutting myself down; but preparing for the right person to come along. See, I am alone, but not lonely.

In search of wonderland

Our love story, as old as all the memories
Where shall I begin
In search of a wonderland
where beauty and love will never cease
Open your eyes your heart your mind to see
I have climbed over the mountains and the tumbling seas
When darkness falls
I am weeping by the hollow trees
My fear my loneliness emerge out of tears
In my dreams, you again turned your back and walked away
All I have been asking for
is a tender soul to ease my pain so dear
At times, do you think of me
I love you as I lift my voice in many prayers
Wish I could find the wonderland
Someday, somehow, somewhere……...

Global Warning

Where do you think we're heading with global warming? While the climate has been changing rapidly, there's no doubt a warning we cannot afford to ignore if we do treasure the place we're living. Nowhere is ever safe, before it's too late.

Fighter vs. Loser

Misfortunes cannot be avoid, knowing that in time they will be overcome.
I'll make it through whatever comes along, because I'm a fighter, not a loser.

Dream Works

I always have this dream: flying to the sky and aim high. In my reach, I believe, achieve, and aspire. People keep saying if I listen to my heart, nothing can go wrong. As we all know time is precious, instead of working so hard for it, I'll do what it takes to make it work for me.